The nature vs nurture argument is an astounding conversation to be had. I myself have been the subject of many of these. Not even an hour ago, I listened to my parents bicker about whether children are more a product of their environment, or more a product of their family. I think its safe to say our environment has more of an impact. That may just be my opinion, but as I’ve grown, and learned various things through my life, I feel the surrounding environment has taught me much more than anything I could have ever learned at home. If I looked from the perspective of a ratio, it would be; environment: 70, home: 30.
I feel as though I’ve personally grown up in a generation that caught the beginning of major technological innovation, and the end of verbal communication. Apps like tinder, bumble, Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat and you name the rest, have diminished the concept of speaking to another person. Speaking is actually considered a skill on a resume. But realistically, it should be a trait. It’s definitely the number one skill/trait to have. Unfortunately, not everyone is as extroverted as myself. I don't think that is something I should be ashamed of. It’s actually something I should embrace. And I do. I have my family to thank for that. Growing up in an Italian household; I’ve been handed in a sense, a silver spoon. I’ve been taught the value of FAMILY. I’ve been taught money isn't everything. I’ve been taught empathy, sympathy, and how to be passionate. Tradition is a huge part of my life. My culture defines who I am. 150%. Using the values I’ve learned, my perception of life has taught me that the sky is the limit. My mother, who is my rock; has been a shoulder to cry on, and a friend to rely on. My dad has always been a provider. No matter the situation, he finds a way to make ends meet. My brother has been a dumbass, but definitely one of my biggest role models. That may just be my house, but I can assure you others would agree.These people are my nurture. They influence my behavior, and have helped me grow into a woman with a great demeanor, and kick ass intentions. But LIFE has taught me how to live. That may sound corny as hell, but read between the lines. My beliefs shadow my morals. My morals guide my life. And as I grow, I will remain humble.
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